{"id":18012,"date":"2011-05-18T12:36:12","date_gmt":"2011-05-18T19:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=18012"},"modified":"2011-05-18T12:36:12","modified_gmt":"2011-05-18T19:36:12","slug":"it-takes-a-village","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=18012","title":{"rendered":"It Takes a Village"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I got a great comment from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.justjill.us\/blog\/\">Jill <\/a>recently:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">&#8220;Over the past 6 years I have lost 80 pounds.  I am struggling with the  dreaded \u201clast 10\u2033.  Due to a surgery and an injury I have not been able  to exercise for the past 15 weeks.  While I was doing all this sitting- I  started a blog.  I never knew that blogging could be so therapeutic.   The community out here is so loving and supportive.  I don\u2019t feel so  alone anymore.  Thank you for being so honest(and funny) about your  journey.  I look forward to following your story and getting inspiration  from you!!!  Thank you!&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The fitblog community is definitely a good one! It&#8217;s a place to find support from other people going through the same struggles. Finding friends on Twitter and other blogs is a great way to find camaraderie. I&#8217;ve seen so many people on Twitter say something like <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>&#8220;I need help getting motivated to do ____ (go to weight watchers, go for a run, go to the gym, etc)&#8221;<\/strong><\/span> and then that person is flooded with support. I think that&#8217;s awesome! Sometimes all you need is that little extra push from someone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/it-takes-a-village.85142332_std.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-18017\" title=\"it-takes-a-village.85142332_std\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/it-takes-a-village.85142332_std-300x138.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"138\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/it-takes-a-village.85142332_std-300x138.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/it-takes-a-village.85142332_std.jpg 302w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nWhen I was 250 pounds I never knew that this community existed. I really wish I had. I wish I had known about the weight loss blog world. I think it would have helped me a lot and it might have given me good ideas on how to lose weight. Instead, I kind of muddled through it all by myself.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Bachelorette1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-18080\" title=\"Bachelorette1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Bachelorette1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Bachelorette1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Bachelorette1.jpg 604w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThis is not to say that I didn&#8217;t have <em>support.<\/em> I had tons of support from most of my friends, my family, coworkers. I had a solid support system of people who encouraged my weight loss efforts, congratulated my progress and celebrated my successes.<\/p>\n<p>The people that were <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=5834\">not supportive<\/a>, went by the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=12649\">wayside<\/a>. I had no room for them in my life.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/friends.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-18019\" title=\"friends\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/friends-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/friends-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/friends.jpg 530w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThe ones that were supportive and awesome have stuck around! True friends! The<a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=12336\"> risk was worth the reward<\/a>! I&#8217;ve also met some great people through blogging! Some are internet buddies and some I&#8217;ve <a href=\"http:\/\/carbzilla.britehive.com\">met in person<\/a> and really enjoy spending time with!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/MeLisaPDX21011.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-18085\" title=\"MeLisaPDX21011\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/MeLisaPDX21011-300x262.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/MeLisaPDX21011-300x262.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/MeLisaPDX21011-1024x894.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/MeLisaPDX21011.jpg 2045w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nWhy it takes a village to lose weight: <strong>SUPPORT<\/strong>! Having support from friends and family keeps us on track in the day to day drudgery. Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to stay consistent in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=16175\">good habits<\/a> but with people cheering you on, it&#8217;s easier. Working out is so much more fun when you do it <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=7638\">with a partner<\/a>. It doesn&#8217;t necessarily need to be working out in a gym&#8211;it could be hikes and walks in the sunshine.<\/p>\n<p>So if you are struggling to find some motivation to lose weight, look to your friends.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Join Weight Watchers for the community and accountability.<\/li>\n<li>Start a blog to stay accountable to yourself, and to network with other people trying to lose weight<\/li>\n<li>Ask friends to workout with you!<\/li>\n<li>Join a Running Club! They are usually free and it&#8217;s also a good way to meet new friends.<\/li>\n<li>Ask family members to join you in healthy activities.<\/li>\n<li>Join a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.biggestloserclub.com\/banner.asp?sname=DirectLoad\">chat group<\/a> online.<\/li>\n<li>Join <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sparkpeople.com\/\">SparkPeople<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Make friends at your gym, or better yet, make friends with a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=16005\">Personal Trainer<\/a>!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>There are always ways to find a positive, healthy group for support. You just have to look for it. \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m lucky. I have tons of friends who are supportive and active. My friend Robyn likes to work out with me. Michael encouraged me to try cycling and now I commute to work and I&#8217;m training to do 100 miles! I am lucky to have the support.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>QUESTION: Tell me about the support you get from your village.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got a great comment from Jill recently: &#8220;Over the past 6 years I have lost 80 pounds. I am struggling with the dreaded \u201clast 10\u2033. Due to a surgery and an injury I have not been able to exercise for the past 15 weeks. While I was doing all this sitting- I started a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18019,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4,44,55,2721,95,101,106,1949,1864,2663,152,154,2559,169,1197,319,1243,1554,2778,2777,2625,214,2973,224,261,3373,298,3212],"tags":[3375,551,3376,1940,3380,3378,3379,8662,805,1800,3374,2692,3377],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/friends.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18012"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18012"}],"version-history":[{"count":23,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18012\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18097,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18012\/revisions\/18097"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}