{"id":37850,"date":"2013-04-23T08:04:18","date_gmt":"2013-04-23T15:04:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=37850"},"modified":"2013-04-10T09:47:55","modified_gmt":"2013-04-10T16:47:55","slug":"because-you-want-to-or-you-have-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=37850","title":{"rendered":"Because You Want to or You Have To?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Do you work out because you want to or because you have to?<\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[yop_poll id=&#8221;2&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>What a loaded question, huh? But I pose it to you because it&#8217;s an important question. It can most definitely be both. Don&#8217;t we all have those days\/weeks? Those days where we drag our lazy butts to the gym even though we&#8217;d rather just relax at home?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/exercise.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-37878\" alt=\"exercise\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/exercise-1024x575.png\" width=\"695\" height=\"390\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/exercise-1024x575.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/exercise-300x168.png 300w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/exercise.png 1366w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 695px) 100vw, 695px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Because I Want To<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Even when I was overweight and eventually obese, I DID go through phases where I was way into the gym. I remember distinctly when I was still living at home around 18 years old, just out of high-school and I joined the nearby 24HR Fitness. It was a small gym, no pool, but it was close to my parent&#8217;s house and it was also right near where I worked. I would go to the gym a few times a week but it was also followed by eating a footlong sub from Subway or one of those personal sized pizzas from Pizza Hut for dinner. I was undoing everything I did in the gym with a poor diet. But I was 18 and didn&#8217;t know any better and certainly wasn&#8217;t counting my calories then!<\/p>\n<p>I enjoyed going to the gym even though I didn&#8217;t see any results (again, poor diet). I definitely went through very inactive phases (sometimes lasting years at a time) and that is when I put on the most weight. The image of an obese person hating exercise wasn&#8217;t necessarily accurate for me. I was just lazy. I didn&#8217;t see results when I did work out, so why bother? (AGAIN! Diet!)<\/p>\n<p>When I resolved to lose 100 pounds, I started swimming a few days a week and then eventually added some gym sessions to that too. I found that I really really liked it. It was such a good stress reliever! The more I worked out, the fitter I got, the more I LOVED how I felt. I felt healthy, I was losing weight, I was getting stronger.<\/p>\n<p>I loved seeing results and I loved the happy endorphins I was getting. Because of that I&#8217;ve grown addicted to that feeling. It makes me happy, it relieves stress, it gives me &#8220;ME&#8221; time, I see results and I found that I loved doing things like biking, running, hiking and swimming. If I take too many days off from working out, my body doesn&#8217;t feel good. I feel lethargic, I start to feel moody and certain parts of my body start to ache (usually my hips).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/iworkout.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-37879\" alt=\"iworkout\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/iworkout.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"648\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/iworkout.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/iworkout-231x300.jpg 231w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Because I Have To<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>For me, this is the sticky part. It&#8217;s complicated. I definitely have emotional scars and issues related to being obese and losing 100 pounds. There is definitely a fear in the back of my mind that says if I ever stop working out, I will gain back 100 pounds. Is that realistic? Probably not. Is it a valid fear? I think so! I don&#8217;t want to go back to where I was so unhappy. I don&#8217;t want to lose everything I worked so hard for.<\/p>\n<p>There are days when I DO work out &#8220;because I have to.&#8221; For me that means &#8220;it&#8217;s on my calender, it&#8217;s a gym day, I have to work out.&#8221; Lately I&#8217;ve been getting much better at taking <a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=25830\">an extra rest day if my body or my mind needs it<\/a>. Sometimes taking 1 extra rest day is the reset I need and when I return to the gym I feel refreshed and excited again. We all burn out sometimes; that&#8217;s natural. Switch things up!<\/p>\n<p>If more and more of your workouts are done &#8220;Because I Have To&#8221;, maybe it&#8217;s time reevaluate what you&#8217;re doing. Maybe you need to find something else to do that you ENJOY and look forward to it. Check out some of these old posts:<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Maintenance 101: Fitness Should Be Fun\" href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=28973\" rel=\"bookmark\">Maintenance 101: Fitness Should Be Fun<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Why Wednesday \u2013 Why You Need a Break Sometimes\" href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=15288\" rel=\"bookmark\">Why Wednesday \u2013 Why You Need a Break Sometimes<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Why I Dislike Fitness Classes\" href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=26148\" rel=\"bookmark\">Why I Dislike Fitness Classes<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"You Are Stronger Than You Think\" href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=25584\" rel=\"bookmark\">You Are Stronger Than You Think<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I touched on this issue a lot in the &#8220;Fitness Should Be Fun&#8221; post. It should be. It may be hard, it might be exhausting, but if you look forward to it and feel accomplished after it, you&#8217;re on the right track!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you work out because you want to or because you have to? [yop_poll id=&#8221;2&#8243;] What a loaded question, huh? But I pose it to you because it&#8217;s an important question. It can most definitely be both. Don&#8217;t we all have those days\/weeks? 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