{"id":43524,"date":"2014-09-30T08:58:18","date_gmt":"2014-09-30T15:58:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=43524"},"modified":"2014-08-14T14:28:08","modified_gmt":"2014-08-14T21:28:08","slug":"5-things-i-miss-about-weighing-more-than-300-pounds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=43524","title":{"rendered":"5 Things I Miss About Weighing More Than 300 Pounds"},"content":{"rendered":"

A friend posted this article on Facebook and I clicked over to read the article–expecting something else entirely. What I read was the complete opposite of what I was expecting and I found myself saying “YES! I feel the same way, too!” several times. Here is that article:\u00a05 Things I Miss About Weighing More Than 300 Pounds<\/a>. Take a look because it’s a really well-written post.<\/p>\n

She listed a few of the things she missed about weighing over 300 pounds. The first was power. I had to laugh because I could relate to that as well. When I was 250+ pounds I, too, was stronger in a lot of ways. My girth made my calves and quads pretty strong because it was supporting my weight but like this author, I could also move heavy furniture or help people move heavy things and it was no big deal.<\/p>\n

“Being fat gave me natural physical strength. As a thin person, I have to go out of my way to be strong. Despite daily strength training I\u2019m nowhere near as powerful as I used to be. Once upon a time I could confidently lift a couch into and out of a moving truck (a U-Haul, not a truck in motion \u2014 being fat never did give me super powers). Today, I labor under the weight of heavy things.”<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I lift weights and I do what I can to build up my strength. While I’ve made leaps and bounds, I’d be lying if I said a really really strong wind couldn’t knock me over. If someone pushed me as a joke, I would seriously stumble and possibly fall (and have a few times) which is such a huge difference from when I was 250 pounds and couldn’t be pushed over. It’s a very strange idea to suddenly feel like you are “frail.”<\/p>\n

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This next observation hit really close to home for me, especially right now with trying to lose the last few pounds before my wedding. It’s about weight fluctuations:<\/p>\n

“When I was fat I understood that most weight changes are fleeting and insignificant. At 300 pounds, I wore clothes forgiving enough to accommodate ten pounds lost or gained, so I didn\u2019t think much of it. Sadly, going from a size 6 to an 8 makes me nuts in a way that going from a size 26 to a 28 just never did. I miss the freedom I once had from noticing and obsessing over Every. Single. Pound.”<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I admit, I teared up a little bit with that one. She expressed just how I feel (often) and it’s hard for people to understand who haven’t been obese. When the scale starts to tick up and I feel a little down because of those few extra pounds, most people don’t understand why I feel stressed or depressed about it. They say,\u00a0but you’ve lost so much, it’s not a big deal.<\/em>\u00a0Or they say, you can lose that weight in no time!\u00a0<\/em>Not true, losing weight at this stage is much harder<\/strong> and WAY slower<\/strong> than it ever was when I was overweight. It takes twice the amount of work and diligence to see even 1 pound gone on the scale.<\/p>\n

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I would also add this to what the author said–clothes fit differently now. When I was over 200 pounds I wore bigger clothes because I was bigger, obviously, but “plus” sized clothing is just built differently. It’s baggier. It’s usually got some elastic in the waist. So you don’t always notice when you go up a bit. Now? When my size 6 jeans start to feel a little tight I feel it immediately. Clothes that I buy at this weight are obviously smaller and form-fitting. When that pesky 5 pounds appears you can see and feel it!<\/p>\n

What about this one?<\/p>\n

“When I\u2019m lying on my side, the feeling of knee bone on knee bone is enough to keep me up all night. I could write a whole post about how awful it feels to sit on a hard surface with a bony butt. Tail bones and hard seats: never the two should meet. “<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Yep, yep, yep. I am so freakin\u2019 bony. Seriously, I thought I was the only one that felt this way and reading that this woman experienced the same exact thing made me sigh with relief a little. I wasn\u2019t alone. When I lay in bed at night, on my side, my knees bug me because they feel like just two knobs rubbing against each other. Russian Twists? Forget about it. I can\u2019t do that exercise unless I have a little padding under my butt (be it a towel or pad at the gym) because it hurts my tailbone so much.<\/p>\n

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This last observation is something I\u2019ve written about in the past<\/a>. I had a few surprising twists with friendships and relationships as I was losing my weight. But you don’t expect that it will actually happen…<\/p>\n

“Starting and\u00a0maintaining friendships<\/span><\/a>\u00a0was easier when I was fat. Women rarely saw me as a rival and were less self-conscious than they are around me today.”<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I dated someone who tried to sabotage my weight loss<\/a> every chance he got. I lost a few friends along the way that just couldn\u2019t be happy for me, for whatever reason. The good news? I also found out just how encouraging and how supportive friends and family can be. They helped me reach my goal and gave me positive feedback that kept me going when it was really hard.<\/p>\n

Something else I\u2019d add to this topic\u2026One of the things I miss about 250 pounds is being unaware<\/strong>. I have no idea anymore what it feels like to be carefree, worry-free and easy going when it comes to food. It\u2019s too late to turn back. I already know how many calories are in most foods. I can take a look at something and while the Demon on my shoulder is saying Oh that looks so great EAT THAT! <\/em>The Angel on my shoulder is reminding me how hard I worked to lose the weight and just how many calories are in that. It kind of takes ALL THE FUN OUT OF IT.<\/p>\n

I talk a lot about moderation and not denying myself foods–just being smarter about what I eat and paying attention to portions. But damn, sometimes that SUCKS. Sometimes you do want to eat some ice cream and not regret it!<\/p>\n

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Do I regret losing the weight? Hell no. I’m happier and healthier and living a life closer to my values than I ever did before. I cherish what I can do now. I feel proud of the events I’ve participated in and I’m happy that I’ve been able to keep the weight off for 6 years now. The problem is–there’s no manual for weight loss. Not really. No one tells you the changes you’ll go through, the issues you’ll come across. There aren’t any self-help books out there about how to adjust your brain and thinking after losing a massive amount of weight (I know, I’ve looked). It can be very isolating.\u00a0I am the only person on the planet that feels like this…<\/em>Yet, this article spoke to me in ways I didn’t even have on my radar. For that I am so grateful. I’d love to hear what experiences other people have had too!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A friend posted this article on Facebook and I clicked over to read the article–expecting something else entirely. What I read was the complete opposite of what I was expecting and I found myself saying “YES! I feel the same way, too!” several times. Here is that article:\u00a05 Things I Miss About Weighing More Than […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[4,418,44,514,84,152,154,318,319,298,3372],"tags":[8776,1761,8591,8617,8662,8034,839,8758],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43524"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43524"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43524\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43532,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43524\/revisions\/43532"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}