{"id":61188,"date":"2022-09-20T12:26:00","date_gmt":"2022-09-20T19:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=61188"},"modified":"2022-09-20T12:26:01","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T19:26:01","slug":"calories-in-calories-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/?p=61188","title":{"rendered":"Calories in, Calories out"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I recently had a really good zoom chat with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.roseyrebecca.com\/blog\">Rebecca<\/a>. We had been &#8220;friends&#8221; for 12 years, back in the early blogging days. Awhile ago I noticed her instagram changing, like mine, to a more health at every size, intuitive eating, non-diet culture subject matter and I reached out to have a chat with her about her journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We both kind of came to it slowly. And then we both reflected back to the &#8220;old&#8221; days and realized just how disordered we were. Her story is not my story, so I suggest you follow her on social media\/blog. But it got me questioning what started this new journey for me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I would say that doing keto was really the big wake up call at how restrictive I was. Trying to be under 25g of carbs a day is not sustainable, not healthy and really shouldn&#8217;t be &#8220;the norm.&#8221; Counting calories, like I&#8217;ve done for almost 20 years now, isn&#8217;t necessarily the best thing either. I&#8217;m glad that I started to ease up on that, and eventually stopped it entirely. Why? Because constantly thinking and tracking calories only makes food your #1 thought at all times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5537.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"1002\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5537.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-61192\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5537.jpg 828w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5537-248x300.jpg 248w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5537-768x929.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"826\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538-826x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-61191\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538-826x1024.jpg 826w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538-242x300.jpg 242w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538-768x952.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5538.jpg 828w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 826px) 100vw, 826px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In previous posts I&#8217;ve talked about healing my relationship with exercise: not using it as a punishment for eating, not using exercise as a way to earn my food. Not spending so much time working out that I don&#8217;t get to do fun stuff. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5539.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"1009\" src=\"http:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5539.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-61190\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5539.jpg 828w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5539-246x300.jpg 246w, https:\/\/www.110pounds.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_5539-768x936.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem I am facing is that I&#8217;ve done the restriction for so long, my brain is just used to it. It&#8217;s hard to break that habit. I&#8217;ve also wondered if I have totally screwed up my metabolism by restricting for so long. When I think back to where I had plateaus with weight loss, it was always around the same weight. The first time it was 170 pounds&#8211;and that&#8217;s when I started working out every single day AND I lowered my daily calories to 1600 a day. The second time was after I had Logan and when I eventually started doing keto. No matter what I did, even lowering my calories to 1400 a day, I didn&#8217;t get much lower than that 170. So maybe I need to face that that is where my body just wants to be normally. Sure, you can restrict and maybe lose a little bit more, but will it be easy? Will it be sustainable? Maybe your body looks the way it looks because of biology and genetics. It really isn&#8217;t as simple as &#8220;calories in vs. calories out.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rebecca shared <a href=\"https:\/\/alissarumsey.com\/how-to-find-your-set-point-weight\/\">this excellent article <\/a>with me and I hope everyone takes a few minutes to read it. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently had a really good zoom chat with Rebecca. We had been &#8220;friends&#8221; for 12 years, back in the early blogging days. 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