Because You Want to or You Have To?

Do you work out because you want to or because you have to?

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What a loaded question, huh? But I pose it to you because it’s an important question. It can most definitely be both. Don’t we all have those days/weeks? Those days where we drag our lazy butts to the gym even though we’d rather just relax at home?

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Because I Want To

Even when I was overweight and eventually obese, I DID go through phases where I was way into the gym. I remember distinctly when I was still living at home around 18 years old, just out of high-school and I joined the nearby 24HR Fitness. It was a small gym, no pool, but it was close to my parent’s house and it was also right near where I worked. I would go to the gym a few times a week but it was also followed by eating a footlong sub from Subway or one of those personal sized pizzas from Pizza Hut for dinner. I was undoing everything I did in the gym with a poor diet. But I was 18 and didn’t know any better and certainly wasn’t counting my calories then!

I enjoyed going to the gym even though I didn’t see any results (again, poor diet). I definitely went through very inactive phases (sometimes lasting years at a time) and that is when I put on the most weight. The image of an obese person hating exercise wasn’t necessarily accurate for me. I was just lazy. I didn’t see results when I did work out, so why bother? (AGAIN! Diet!)

When I resolved to lose 100 pounds, I started swimming a few days a week and then eventually added some gym sessions to that too. I found that I really really liked it. It was such a good stress reliever! The more I worked out, the fitter I got, the more I LOVED how I felt. I felt healthy, I was losing weight, I was getting stronger.

I loved seeing results and I loved the happy endorphins I was getting. Because of that I’ve grown addicted to that feeling. It makes me happy, it relieves stress, it gives me “ME” time, I see results and I found that I loved doing things like biking, running, hiking and swimming. If I take too many days off from working out, my body doesn’t feel good. I feel lethargic, I start to feel moody and certain parts of my body start to ache (usually my hips).

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Because I Have To

For me, this is the sticky part. It’s complicated. I definitely have emotional scars and issues related to being obese and losing 100 pounds. There is definitely a fear in the back of my mind that says if I ever stop working out, I will gain back 100 pounds. Is that realistic? Probably not. Is it a valid fear? I think so! I don’t want to go back to where I was so unhappy. I don’t want to lose everything I worked so hard for.

There are days when I DO work out “because I have to.” For me that means “it’s on my calender, it’s a gym day, I have to work out.” Lately I’ve been getting much better at taking an extra rest day if my body or my mind needs it. Sometimes taking 1 extra rest day is the reset I need and when I return to the gym I feel refreshed and excited again. We all burn out sometimes; that’s natural. Switch things up!

If more and more of your workouts are done “Because I Have To”, maybe it’s time reevaluate what you’re doing. Maybe you need to find something else to do that you ENJOY and look forward to it. Check out some of these old posts:

Maintenance 101: Fitness Should Be Fun

Why Wednesday – Why You Need a Break Sometimes

Why I Dislike Fitness Classes

You Are Stronger Than You Think

I touched on this issue a lot in the “Fitness Should Be Fun” post. It should be. It may be hard, it might be exhausting, but if you look forward to it and feel accomplished after it, you’re on the right track!

20 Responses

  1. Once I figured out what exercise I liked – I do it because I love it. I can’t wait to get out on my bike – and I certainly also enjoy eating the food burning all those calories brings πŸ˜€
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  2. I wish I craved exercise….but I’ve never got to that point. I do it because I have to, and if I find an activity I like, its not a chore, but some days…ug….it’s BRUTAL to get there. Once I’m there and done I’m fine…
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  3. I go to the gym because I have to but I leave happy that I went. It helps going around the same time every day. Although you may not know anyone at the gym, you recognize the regulars at your time. I feel some accountability to the regulars, strange as that sounds.

    Something that I’ve noticed in the past year is that my good days are the ones where I’ve exercised. I have young children and I think I need my gym time to work out my frustrations and think.

    1. “I go to the gym because I have to but I leave happy that I went.” <---I like this! I agree. Yes, I don't KNOW the regulars but I recognize them because they are there when I am. At some point I should probably be friendly and say hi but...I'm too focused on working out. LOL Glad you found a stress-reliever.

  4. Most days I choose exercises I love doing so I will want to do it. But some days I am tired, cranky, had a long day at work and that because I have to keeps me from just going home crawling into PJ’s and eating all the chocolate I can find.
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  5. Great post, Lisa! I’m not surprised that most people voted on “A Little Of Both”. I know I enjoy working out a lot, especially when I see results, but I definitely have to work out to keep myself mentally and physically able to tackle everyday stresses, and for weight management. It’s a lifestyle change to be able to motivate yourself to work out on a regular basis, and although it’s not something I want to do every day – Fridays, for example, I really don’t want to work out after a long day’s work – it’s something that will need to be a part of my life for the rest of it!
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  6. It’s interesting, I’ve never thought of working out as ‘having to’. I guess when I’m feeling groggy and I ‘have to’, it’s because in the long run I want to, so I don’t think of it in terms of a chore – for me it’s freedom.

    I love all those reasons to work out (that image in the middle), have a wonderful day Lisa!
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